The Joy of Camping – A Closer Look at Rushing River

The Joy of Camping – A Closer Look at Rushing River

Folks have asked for some more details about camping at Rushing River after my first post on Rushing River. Great! Hear are some more details and really hope folks are inspired to visit!

Rushing River: The Park

Rushing River is about 20-25 minutes from the town of Kenora – a very cute and pretty town in the northwest edge of Ontario. The park wraps itself around the western edge of Dogtooth Lake, and has some of the most beautiful camping sites on either edge of the lake. Tall pines and rocky shores along with sandy beaches, are common features.

It has 2 large boat docks, for the boating fans and if you know the lake well, you can be on the lake for hours and can enjoy lunch on many islands. If you don’t like boats, then you can canoe, kayak or paddle-board or just float, on the lake.

There is a point where the lake pours into a smaller lake/river and creates some majestic falls. It’s the drawing card and name sake of this park “Rushing River”.

The park is perfect for families or singles or couples without kids. It is extremely well maintained and they are very good at keeping the park quiet so that everyone can enjoy it. You will find modern showers and also modern bathroom facilities. You will also find outhouses peppered throughout the campground and running potable water.

There is a campground store nearby (about 3 minutes by car outside of the park gates) and a small coffee shop in the park that serves coffee and some light snacks. You can rent canoes at the store and if you forget something “big”, the town of Kenora will have everything you need!

Campgrounds

More about the campgrounds. The campgrounds are divided into about 4 zones. There is a 5th Group Camping zone, but I’ll focus on the individual campsites for now.

I’ve been going here for over a decade, and have stayed in all 4 zones. Of course I have my favourites zones – the north west and south east zones. No matter the zone, I have always enjoyed this park.

There are many sites on the water and why I pick the north west and south east zones – for easy access to the lake. (There are also many sites not on the water, and perfect for campers and RVs). If you are interested in these sites, check out the following sites. While there aren’t the only sites but some of the ones I’ve used.

67, 105, 106, 104, 110, and 225-231

You have sites that are flat and level and perfect for RVs). On other sites you will park on the hill, and then walk all your gear down. Although this may feel like a pain, these are some of the most beautiful sites! My friends and I gripe each time about the haul down the hill. The minute we are done and sipping a nice wine, and staring at the lake, the griping is over!!!!!!

The Lake

The lake is the drawing card. I will have more to say about the lake, but for this post, I will share some of the highlights.

If you want to have a relaxing paddle or just float slowly down the lake, this lake is for you. The Dogtooth Lake is the centre of this park, literally. Some folks jet ski, others bring their motorboats and head out for some fishing. Others spend their day at the beach, where its shallow and go for a swim.I like to paddle-board up and down the lake. There are a few sites where you can access the lake right from your site.

Whatever water sport is a fit for you, chances are you can enjoy it on this lake.

Hiking

Rushing River also has 4 hiking trails near by. I’ve attached a copy of the trails map, courtesy of Ontario Parks. All various lengths. Some are short and one that can last a few hours but has some beautiful scenery. All of the trails are accessible from the park and all have parking lots near by.

The Area

Rushing River is located in an area that features other campgrounds, and towns. There is a lot to explore. If you leave the park and go south, you will head down to places like Nestor Falls and Sioux Narrows. Perfect afternoon trips and lots to see. If you go down to the US border, you will be able to visit Fort Frances. From there, you can cross the border and spend time at the International Falls.

If You Decide to Go

Like many campsites today, you can reserve online. One hint: this park is very popular in the summer and if you want to get a lake side site, you will have to book it 6 months in advance. If you don’t care about a water site, then you can book those a few weeks or a few days ahead (with the exception on long weekends).

Joy and Wander – Getting Lost at the Met in NYC

Joy and Wander – Getting Lost at the Met in NYC

“A visit to a museum is a search for beauty, truth, and meaning in our lives. Go to museums as often as you can.”
— Maira Kalman

Museums hold such joy and inspiration.  Yes, I know that museums aren’t for everyone, and to those folks I say “but have you really tried”.   

I wouldn’t say I am a junkie but every time I visit or visited a new city, one of the first things I do is visit a museum.  (For the record, I have visited it about 7 times.) 

Why?  Because it holds so many stories – stories about how we got here today, how this city came to be, and who had brilliant ideas before their their time.

One of my “A list” museums that I love and truly adore,  is the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York City.  (And yes, I have also been to museums in Europe and still adore the Met).  I know you may be asking yourself  “when will I ever get there”?  Well, I was in the same boat for many years and then one year, my friends and I just stopped saying never and “just did it”.

The Metropolitan Museum is massive but not overwhelming.  When you walk into the main hall, you immediately get a sense of the scale of the museum and the beauty it contains. (If you scroll down, you can see a brief slideshow of some of my favourite highlights.)

You can meander all the halls and design your own path and flow.  There are multiple floors including a lower level that often houses a costume museum (and one of my favourite parts of the Met).  Your visit is made up of a series of connected halls and rooms, on all floors, and if you get a little “noshy”, you can also enjoy one of my favourite cafes, looking out to Central Park, called the Petrie Court Cafe . (PS. After I visit the Met, I head south to Central Park with a coffee, and just wander in the Park. 

You will not be disappointed.  The museum holds famous artists such as Monet, Picasso and Renoir.  And then you also see artwork or displays that just take your breathe away.   If you’re like me, that’s because you  aren’t an aficionado but the artwork just inspires you.   

If you catch some of the exhibits, you can also see a room full of twinkling diamonds, rubies and emeralds, donated by movie stars and wealthy aristocrats. I think I spent hours at this exhibition and tried to take in all that artistry and “shine” that lit up the room.  It oozed decadence and beauty.

My favourite is the sun dappled court in the American Wing, where you can sit in the sun filled atrium amongst the roman statues, and just wanting to pinch yourself.

This museum has it all.  Period.

Want to see a hall full of arm and armour including ones on armored horseback? It has it.

Want to wander a room full of European Sculpture atrium?  They have it.

Want to see all the famous artists you have every heard of? It has it.

Want to visit an Egyptian (“Temple of Dendur”) and a room full of mummies? Not one mummy, a room full! They have it.

Want to walk into rooms from 18th century France and see how the rich people lived back then?  It has it.

Whatever it is that you were curious about and wanted to see “live”, they have it.   

I will write more about the Met (and New York City) later because there is so much to write.  

But my question to you is, when will you visit?

Bliss Reflection #15

Touring the museum can take hours if you wish to see it all, and also learn more about each of the displays. Sometimes when I visit, I only have a couple of hours and make it a point to see my favourite spots and then call it good.  Most times, I plan on spending either a full afternoon, or a full day (if I plan on stopping and eating).  

But the joy of visiting this particular museum comes from the beauty, the history, and all the learning. 

Museums feed two joy “ingredients”- 1) curiosity and 2) wandering.  I love feeding my curiosity about all things called “life” and the Met allows me to feed myself full.   I am always surprised by what I didn’t see the last time I visited.  

Sometimes, I choose a hall and decide today I will learn more about glass vases and place settings throughout history. And then imagine what life was like back then and “how did they do that”? 

Other times, I choose to wander slowly and take more time to sit, and stare at a particular painting that is larger than life in many ways.

Whatever the focus on my adventure, I am like a kid in the candy store when I walk into the Great Hall, their main entry off of the infamous 5th Avenue. The anticipation of it is half the fun.

As I wander through, I am amazed at what civilization is capable of – good, and yes bad, but mostly good.  The ingenuity, the craftsmanship, the human spirt and the connection to nature when all this tech stuff was not there – all are amazing.

My favourite joy moment, is when my friends all chipped in and bought me a membership at the Met.   With my membership,  I was able to use one of their private member rooms. And there I was, a northern prairie girl, sipping a glass of wine, sitting beside the other New Yorkers.  Pinch me.  

I have to say – I sat there and took it all in. I looked around the room and wondered about all of the stories this room and these people had.  For a minute, I crossed paths with many life stories, while I sat there thinking “how did I get here”? 

For me, the Met was a “once in a lifetime” joy moment. And look at me now, I’ve been there not once, but seven times.  Life is short, and why not enjoy your once in a lifetime?

Bliss Finds and Facts

  • Did you know that the Met has audio tours and you can listen to them from the comfort of your home? Check out their audio guide.
  • For a listing of the current exhibitions and events, along with access their online map and shop, click here.
  • Visit the Joy of Museums webpage for more information about many museums across the world.
  • For some interesting facts about the Met, check out this blog on Mental Floss.

Paddling Your Cares Away (and trying something new)

Paddling Your Cares Away (and trying something new)

Over the last 2 years, I decided to try something new. I realized how much I loved being around water and after floating many time in a dingy in one of my favourite lakes – Dogtooth Lake in Rushing River.

Each time I was in my little boat, I would see folks paddleboarding past me and me saying ”I need to try that one day”. What an odd concept I thought – someone kayaking standing up but doing this would also mean that I would spend more time on the water, which to me is just soothing.

So setting my mind to it, I set out and got myself an inexpensive paddleboard, not knowing if I would like this or not. But off I went, with little to no research and got myself a board and turns out I liked it. I was so eager to get my board in time for the lake, that I found almost the first one I located online. (I would highly recommend in the future doing more homework than I did because…

Funny story – after using it a few times, and friends using it, we realized that I actually bought a junior paddleboard! Oh well, but I tried it and I liked it so upgraded this past summer to an iRocker paddleboard and loved it.

When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy.”

– Rumi

Bliss Reflection #2

Being on the water, lightens my load. Whether its the sights or sounds on the lake or the gentle movement of the board on the water, paddleboarding seems to make my worries float away. Although standing up on the board is still ”under construction”, I have enjoyed flaoting on the lake and looking around and trying to understand the world I live in. Its not uncommon that each time I see a bird I have never seen or hear a new sound. My curiousity about what that is or was, gives me life. Curiousity and this hunger to learn makes paddleboarding so appealing. You see the world from a different lens and there can be such peace and tranquility that comes with it. Sure the wobbling and uneveness on the board can distracting, but once you settle in, its very calming. Finding the right body of water (that is generally calm and has a lot of space between you and the motorboats) is key to your experience, but once you find it (and there are many) you are moments from your meditative moment. Its quie surprising how quickly you get hooked.

Bliss Finds and Facts

  • If you are looking for a new paddleboard, consider iRocker. I have had the Cruiser for 1 paddling season, and while not nearly a pro, I am really enjoying it. Its a very stable board (great for beginners) and the company has a ton of accessories you can get including cooler bags, drink cup holders, and even a bluetooth speaker. When the spring thaw comes, I am all geared up!
  • Need some paddling routes? I am trialing the Go Paddling app. It not only has hiking trails but also some good intel on paddling routes. Know of others? Let me know!
The Fire Colours in the Fall (Yes, the Photo was taken while balancing on the board

Are You Nurturing the ”Geek” Inside?

Are You Nurturing the ”Geek” Inside?

I may be dating myself a bit here, but the thing that gave me one of my greatest joys was my first video game machine – Atari. Atari was THE game unit to have. Of course, every year or so after that, other video game units like Nintendo, Commodore 64 and Sega came out (which were great), but I loved my Atari. I had numerous Atari games that I loved and played for hours: Asteroids, Maze Craze, Pac Man, Donkey-Kong, and Montezuma’s Revenge…just to name a few. While I know the graphics today are eons ahead, these games just blew your mind! 

I must have spent hours playing Maze Craze and trying to beat my best score. I think I was so geeked out over my video games, I may have even played hooky from school and pretended I was sick so I could beat the game at Asteroids. (And I did beat the game that day by the way…and I think my sister knew I was playing hooky – but she didn’t tell!)

Bliss Reflections #10

I knew very early on in life that I was a geek – said with pride and joy. Anytime I got to play a video game, or play on my first computer (or Nintendo Wii), I feel a lot of joy. How could a wood-like box make me so excited, at peace and feeling in my element? I will share more in future posts – I think I know the answer and it seems that I have remained true to my geekiness right into adulthood. I know for a fact that I am so at ease with computers (including troubleshooting), iPads, spreadsheets, databases and Powerpoints, because I nurtured that geeky side…I could even stretch things and say video games made me good at math and science (!) 

But I think the joy in this story isn’t about me. I think the thing that brings me joy is that I knew my father saved his spare pennies and got me my Atari for Christmas. I was over the moon and to this day, I still remember seeing the Eaton’s bag (a wonderful department store in Canada) in the living room, and jumping up and down for joy because I could not believe that I DID get my Atari unit. But even more importantly, I remember the big smile on his face when he sat in the living room, watching his daughter rip the box apart.

My dad loved to see his girls happy. And being a new immigrant to Canada, I knew that he didn’t have an easy life. But I think the bliss moment isn’t about me – it was the joy my dad felt when he saw his little girl tear open the box and squealed in disbelief. 

My dad’s life was hard – he saw a war, lost his family and country, and like many men from that era, struggled. But My dad nurtured my ”inner geek”. And I am forever grateful. 

That day, he wore a huge smile. Whenever he was really happy, he had this ”posture” where he would be sitting, leaning over, wearing a huge smile, wringing his hands, and nodding his head with a knowing look in a ”yup, I think I’ve done good”. He was proud – proud that he could ”provide for his family” and make his children happy. Looking back, it wasn’t about the purchase – not to my dad or to me. It was that smile, and while I remember that Atari so many years later, I also remember his proud dad posture and his ear to ear grin as he watched intently how his daughter set up the video game. I am happy that my dad felt that emotion in his life. I am so grateful that my dad knew happiness.

Bliss Finds and Facts

  • If you want to learn more about Atari or go down memory lane, check out the Atari website. Looks like they have a new unit – and I just may have to check it out.
My nirvana at 12 years old

Is it Time Yet? Counting Down the Days to Camping!

Is it Time Yet?  Counting Down the Days to Camping!

I’m not sure where you live but this white fluffy stuff gets a little old in February. Wait – maybe that’s not it. Maybe knowing that my friends and I can go camping very soon, makes us anxious to get through the last few weeks of winter. I have now lived through more than 20 cycles of “camping season is almost here”, to ”camping is here”, to ”can’t believe its over” to ”camping season is almost here”. We have tent-camped for many many years and have many favourite places. 

Editorial Note – Some Details about Rushing River

One of our favourite places (we have many including Birds Hill) is Rushing River in Ontario. Rushing River is about two and a half hours from Winnipeg, or about 20 minutes outside of Kenora.

Rushing River is a provincial park (so day passes are required) that sits on the Dogtooth Lake, and that leads to miles of canoe and fishing trips. The shore is a mix of large rock faces, pine trees and gentle ponds (depending on where your site it is.)

It has a wealth of campsites and has group, tent and RV sites. (For those that want to know, yes, it does have modern washrooms and showers.) There are the primo sites that line the lake (and usually require being booked six months before you go) and lots of rolling hills for those that like to go for iron man walks or runs.

Of course, the main show is the beach and lake, which flows into the Rushing River that is always a picturesque site to see. It’s great place to have a picnic – that’s if you can hear one another over the ”rushing water” nearby.

There’s plenty to do especially on the water, and folks can rent canoes and other water toys at the local store just a minute outside of the park gate. (Just want to say a shout out to all the staff at the Rushing River General Store and especially Donna who has always greeted us with a smile and looks for us each year.)

Bliss Reflection #9

Camping season feels too short, but it’s a ‘fifth’ season that brings me a lot of joy. Whether it’s sitting by the fire, enjoying a warm cup of coffee on a rock as the sun rises, or floating aimlessly with no destination on the Dogtooth Lake, camping is just good for the soul. 

That moment when you get to sit down after unpacking your car and setting up your site set up and the lake suddenly appears is priceless. I feel my blood pressure drop, just like that. And I can sit and stare for hours (and I am an extrovert). But when the lake is in front of you, you almost go into a trance. Talk about meditation! Peppered throughout those trances are bouts of laughter among my friends when we recall all the dumb things we’ve done in our lives. 

But it’s the water – that water – that draws us in. For brief moments, all is fine at work, at home and in the world. You marvel at how beautiful nature is and how this all just works together and creates ”this”. And somehow, you long to be floating on top of it, with nowhere to go and nothing else to do. 

Bliss Finds and Facts

  • Obviously, one of the resources I will share is the Ontario Parks Reservations website where you can book a campsite or RV site at Rushing River.
  • Want to better understand the science of being by a body of water and its impact on your mental health? Check out an article from the Huffington Post.
  • And to learn more about camping (if you’ve never been), there are several sites that talk about the basics. Here is one, but there are a ton out there.

Dancing Like No One is Watching

Dancing Like No One is Watching

How could I start a blog and my own “personal magazine” on joy and optimism without highlighting a Canadian who has probably been the beacon of joy – Gurdeep Pandher. During the COVID-19 pandemic, he danced into everyone’s hearts through his series of east Indian dances out in a northern Canadian wilderness. Here’s someone I think got it right during COVID – he became his own one man social marketing initiative with one goal – get up, get outside, dance and feel some joy! When all of us felt scared, worried, anxious or fearful, we had Gurdeep. If you ever watched his dance, how could you not smile?

Every day brings a chance for you to draw in a breath, kick off your shoes and dance.

– Oprah Winfrey

Bliss Reflection #6

Dancing can have such a joyous effect on me. Being someone with a healthcare background, I know how the endorphins start pumping out the feel-good hormones. But for me, there is also something more.

Dancing – whether its Gurdeep’s version, dance aerobics like Zumba, or just dancing in your living room – quickly makes me smile, and for a while, the anxiety (that I sometimes struggle with) goes away. Even watching someone dance has the same effect on me.

Letting go is life-giving – and dancing like no one is watching gives me freedom. It gets my ticker going and it really helps me lighten my load mentally and emotionally. I have recently reengaged with “dancing”, either by blaring all my Alexa speakers throughout the house, or doing some dance aerobics. I have little to no rhythm, but who cares? No one is watching, right? 

Bliss Finds and Facts

  • Check out Gurdeep’s Youtube Channel. Also, check out dance for joy and positivity.
  • If you have never heard of Zumba(!) here is a website to get you started. Zumba is one style of dance aerobics and classes are available almost anywhere so look up some local classes. You won’t regret it.
  • For folks wanting to understand the impact dance can have, Harvard Medical School has a good primer to get you started. Another interesting article is available from Anxiety.org.

Laughter Through the Trees (and maybe Snowshoeing too)

Laughter Through the Trees (and maybe Snowshoeing too)

As the producer and actor James Gandolfini said ”I love to hear people laugh!” So true. Joy can come from hearing others laugh.

I finally got to go out with a group of avid snowshoers and spend a lovely Saturday out in the woods in Manitoba. The Bird River Canyon trail is a trail (but no longer an official provincial trail) with some amazing views and photo spots with a lot of spots for a picnic. Folks will see rock outcrops, large pine trees wrapping the sky above you and plenty of flowing water. It’s a fairly easy hike with a few ups and downs, making it a great trail to visit. I have yet to see this in the summer (I’m told it’s beautiful) but its definitely a place to see in winter. The beauty of this place is that it is rustic and just about the nature. I don’t think there are even picnic tables or washrooms, so this is an “everything is on your own”.

”I love to hear people laugh!”

– James Gandolfini

Bliss Reflection

While the main feature is the natural beauty, hearing all the joyous laughter was my bliss moment. This moment wasn’t about my joy, but the joy being felt by others.

Hearing all the laughs, and seeing all the smiles peppered through the trees, made my heart happy. Three hours later, the sharing and laughter was still strong.

As I exited the trail I realized that not only did I get the endorphins flowing from the snowshoeing, but that I had some renewed optimism that even when life was stressful and feeling “too (insert your word here)”, I left feeling light. Being in nature has a lot to do with “seeing” the beauty around you, but this time my walk in the woods had more to do with “hearing” the beauty of friendship and laughter. Sometimes those great moments in life are about seeing the joy in others. 

Bliss Finds and Facts:

  • For those looking for some cheer from the woods, and maybe a few unique adventures, look up some trails from Travel Manitoba – spring, summer, winter and fall.
  • Here’s a great app to help discover even more trails for your future adventures
  • If you want to learn more about all the hikes in Manitoba, check out, Hike Manitoba.
  • To join a group to get out and enjoy nature and friendship, there’s always Meetup. It offers a wealth of social groups for like minded individuals and who knows, could bring you your bliss moments.
  • And finally, did you know your physician can prescribe you to be out in nature (and a park pass)? Check out this article from the CBC for more info.

He Ho: It’s Time for Festival!

He Ho: It’s Time for Festival!

Like many, we‘ve been hit with snow storm after snow storm up here, and its been a long, hard and cold winter. Snow drifts are almost a regular feature and never have I seen the snow piled so high in my yard. Maybe more on that in a later post. 

So how is this connected to joy? Well, sometimes you have to just find it! And this weekend, my sister and made that choice! Off we went in blizzard-like conditions to the Festival Du Voyageur, a local festival honouring Manitoba’s Francophone community. Festival is just that – a festival of food, music, history, outdoor play and amazing snow sculptures. In fact, Festival usually draws snow sculpture artists from all over the world. You can even try the local food including delicious pea soup, bannock, tourtiere (meat pie), and to-die-for maple sugar pie. You should also try the “caribou” – a port-like tasting alcoholic drink that will warm you up right away!

The local fare

You also can learn more about the history of the fur trading routes including the role of Fort Gibralter, which I learned had a main purpose of being a provisioning fort for the voyageurs travelling through the region. I’ve got a curious mind, so I made it a point to ask each of the staff more questions about the fort and learned a lot about a generation of people way before my time. 

Whether you want to go with your girlfriends, or with your family, or just with you and your adult sister –Festival is for you! It’s a great way to spend an afternoon or evening, and even adults without kids can have a great time!

Bliss Reflection #11

I think my bliss moment at Festival came when out of the blue, one of staff invited my sister and I to go down a slide (with the kids). Years ago, I would have said “no thanks” – maybe too cool, maybe thought I was too old, or whatever. But this year, my answer was “yes!” And off we went.

At first I just kept thinking “don’t get stuck” but I quickly realized I had to let go of that thought and just enjoy the moment. So down I went, and I felt the “pure joy” just like I did when I was a kid going down slides in the park. For those brief seconds, I was reminded what being worry-free felt like. 

I think that’s something we forget as adults – how to allow ourselves to have those moments to be worry free or even free to just enjoy that moment without judgment or deep thought. Down that slide, for those few seconds, I was elated. And when I popped out the other end, I laughed so hard. And it made me wonder  – if I had said no, I would have missed out on this moment. And there in that moment, I promised myself not to say no to these kinds of moments anymore. 

My “inside-my-head” voice would have prevented me from going down the slide. How many times do we allow that voice to win and we miss out? I think we may do that too much. That brief slide for me, made me change the way I think. (And if you’re wondering, yes, when I go back to Festival, I am going back down that slide!)

Bliss Finds and Facts

  • Festival Du Voyageur lasts about a week, about the third week of February every year (barring something like COVID-19). If you’ve never been, I highly suggest you give it a try. Everyone speaks French and English and you can play, eat, learn, and dance – all at the same time. And you’re NEVER too old to take part. Give it a try if you’ve never been or haven’t been in years. And “he-ho!”
  • If you’re like me and you want to read more about the history of the area, culture etc., you can read more about the voyageurs here. At least this will get you started. And what I didn’t know is that the voyageurs didn’t just travel in Canada, but across North America.
  • And in case you needed just a little more convincing about the importance of play in adulthood, check out the following site from Wanderlust for some new perspective and information.

I Am Basia

I Am Basia

On a journey to find my joy in the everyday!

I chose the photo because it’s actually what I do! If I agree with an important point. I chime in with an ”exactly!” Or if my team gets something across the finish line, up goes those arms in cheer and I say ”good job guys!” Yes a little dramatic but hey, it’s me! But the photo embraces me and I couldn’t pick a better photo that says ”joy”!

So why not celebrate when you feel that moment of spring joy in the air?